No Change of Heart, A Change In Me

People change during college. Some for the better and some for the worse. For those that have changed for the worse, it may be hard to .l.e.t. .g.o. , but everyone comes  i n  and  o u t  of your life for a reason. You can't keep every person you meet. You have to let them go and move on with your life. Surround .y.o.u.r.s.e.l.f. with the people that can help you change for the good. 

Sometimes it might seem like they aren't out there, but they are. They may just be  h i d i n g . There are good people everywhere. Make sure you are changing for the good. 

If you're having a hard time letting go, try a physical change to  h e l p  you move on.

Children Only Beyond This Point!

What is a grown up?

I have legally been an adult for over a year now. But I don't feel like a "grown up".

As a child, grown ups and adults were all the same thing. Parents, old people, big people. But when do you really become an adult?

- Is it when you turn 18? 

-Is it when you move out of your parents home?

-Is it when you graduate high school or get a job or start college?

-Or is it when you begin to pay your own bills?

I still rely on my parents for so much. A friend asked me to go with him to Atlanta next weekend on the back of his motorcycle. I was .a.l.l.  .o.v.e.r. the idea, but when I asked my parents they of course said no.

I told them I am an adult if if I really wanted to, I could go. 

They said they knew that, but they also knew me and they knew I wouldn't disrespect them or myself.

They were  r i g h t .

So am I a child for asking permission from my parents and then .l.i.s.t.e.n.i.n.g. to them?

I think it'd be more childish to disobey them. I might still be in my teens, but I'm not some rebellious teenager. 

So is becoming an adult a state of mind? Is it an actual day? I feel that one should know when they've reached that  s t a g e . So does that mean I'm still a kid because I don't know? I don't think I'm ready to be "old". I want to be young and .a.d.v.e.n.t.u.r.o.u.s. , to run and play stupid games and have fun. Can adults do that?

Maybe it's knowing when to act grown up. Like there's a time and a place to be a professional  adult  and a time to run free and act goofy, like a child. 

Be an adult but keep the heart of a child: pure and innocent and exciting.

Parking Frenzy

One thing I've had to learn quickly when coming to college is how to

parallel park.

Parking is  c r a z y  in a city, even a small one. 

And meters and parking tickets (not to mention gas) really add up.

If you don't really need a car, I suggest not bringing one. Plus, if you have a car you  w i l l  become everyone's chauffeur. Guaranteed. And people won't offer you gas money or say thank you. Rides will just be expected.

If it wasn't for my church being quite a ways away, I would gladly stick with a bike. Be sure and get one with a basket if you have lots of art supplies like me.

College Cupcakes!

I've learned that a cupcake can make 

anything  b e t t e r .

But three bucks a cupcake can get expensive, so check out what I found!

I bought this  c u p c a k e  maker for $15 at Wal-Mart in the Valentine's section. I've heard they sell them at Target also. It has mini heart shaped indents to bake cupcakes in and they are delishhhh.

PLUS! Thanks to the info-mercial for the Xpress Redi-Set-Go (don't buy, it's 60 dollars), I've learned many other things I can cook in this.

<3

-Brownies

-Cookies

-Cinnamon Rolls

-Pigs in a Blanket

-Eggs

-Crab Cakes

-Any frozen bite-sized foods you want oven heated!

or check out their website and steal recipes.

http://maryannsgtxpressrecipes.blogspot.com/

S e r i o u s l y , sooo ideal for a college student without a kitchen.

It's an excellent friend maker as well (so I'm learning)!

THE FRESHMAN FIFTEEN

Such a touchy subject.

I probably feared this  m o r e  than being alone on the East side of the country. My mom assured me I wouldn't gain any weight with how .l.i.t.t.l.e. I eat and all the walking I'd be doing.

The problem is, even though I was walking often, I began eating even more often. And there is a whole counter top full of desserts in the cafeteria... and I can go to the grocery store and buy all the snacks my parents wouldn't buy... and my meal card is good for buffet style meals when I normally wouldn't eat such a large meal at home.

Plus, I began pigging out at night. For no reason. Just because I could.

I didn't gain the freshman fifteen my first quarter, but I may have gained eight or so...

L u c k i l y  I've lost some of that.

I decided when I obsess over my weight and food, that I gain  m o r e  weight. If I just eat when I'm hungry and try to make a few .h.e.a.l.t.h.y. choices here and there, then my pants tend to fit okay.

Some people get so busy in college, that they FORGET to eat and then lose weight. Others are home sick so they take to eating. And then there's those of us who just love food and it's easily accessible on campus, so we just eat and  e a t .

Just try to be healthy and aware. 

:)

Birthdays Far from Home

I spent my first birthday away from home:  2 , 0 9 5  miles away from my family.

This is a .d.r.e.a.m. for some college students. For me, it was a little bit lonely. 

I'm not a big birthday celebrator. It's just another day; nobody did anything to deserve it. We all have one. It's not like MLK day, where he did something grand to earn a holiday.

But still. It's not cool to be lonely on your birthday.

If you're away from home for the first time on your birthday:

*Don't spend time alone. You'll get depressed and cry.

*Find a  g o o d  friend that makes sure to take you out and tells everyone it's your birthday.

*Don't spend all day doing homework or going to class make ups.

*If it's  r a i n i n g , put on some cheerful galoshes.

*Take an extra long birthday shower and nap.

*If your .f.a.m.i.l.y. hasn't called you, they probably think you're off having adventures and celebrating. 

Go ahead and call them.

*Go out to eat at any restaurant your little heart desires.

*Eat as much cake and chocolate as you want.

Happy Groundhog Day!

W e l c o m e  Spring! According to the groundhog.

Today has been a shopping by the river kind of day.

It was too beautiful out to stay in and .w.o.r.k. on projects and homework today. Seventy-five degrees, thanks to the little rodent. Sunny and  b r e e z y .

Some students may disagree with my theory of blowing off a little homework for a lovely day;

but I find to be a healthy person you have to give yourself a break.

S o  I  did.

I even bought a chocolate covered strawberry and a cookbook.